Best dates for love and romance in the new year
Cupid’s Cheat Sheet 2024
Once again, it’s a new year. The grand ballet of planets, stars, and points in the sky make their way into the very fabric of our collective psyche, as we muse on what’s up and coming in the new year — it’s such a fascinating thought, isn’t it? It is, at least for me.
On the topic of love, it’s what we all collectively share — the quest for a deeper, more personal connection with our loved one(s).
I’ve always wondered about the correlation between the movement of the planets — like a clock on the wall telling us the time — and how it tells us about the energies at play here on earth. So here I’ve consolidated a list of essential dates for best times for embracing love, fostering relationships, and experiencing beauty and harmony.
These dates are curated based on favorable alignments of Venus (the planet symbolizing love) and other significant astrological transits that are considerable to be aware of.
Here’s to my readers acing the grand tango in this universally sought quest for love on the vastness of the world stage.
🔎 There are 6 main things I’m looking at:
3 harmonious aspects Venus makes (trines, cj, sxt) to 8 other planets/points (mercury, mars, jupiter, saturn, uranus, neptune, pluto, nodes)
Venus ingresses into its domicile and exaltation signs
New moons in Venusian-ruled signs
Venus Cazimis (Venus in the heart of the Sun)
Venus Solos (Purity of independent Venusian energy while in a favourable sign/dominant sun sign)
Honourable mentions to any favourable sign ingression
If all that doesn’t make any sense to you, that’s a normal thing — and that’s why I’m the astrologer and you’re not. 😂 But hey, it’s also my job to translate astro data to understandable language. So here it is —
AI Image — Aphrodite emerging from a shell, set against a heavenly and pink backdrop
You Ready? Here are the dates to look out for —
1. Jan 15 — Venus-North Node trine, sextile South Node
Embracing new values. Positive way forward. Integrating past experiences that support your future.
2. Jan 28 — Venus-Saturn sextile
Getting the love you deserve. Working for keeps. Appreciation for the passage of time. Patience and investment.
3. Jan 29 — Venus-Jupiter trine
Optimism and positive atmosphere. Inclination towards generosity. Acts of goodwill.
5. Feb 8 — Venus-Uranus trine
Expect the unexpected. Spontaneous adventures. Electrifying connections that come with freedom and sparks.
6. Feb 13 — Venus-Neptune sextile
Romance novel vibes. Look at the magic of small gestures. Catching feels while balancing fantasy and reality.
7. Feb 17 — Venus-Pluto conjunction
Intense love. Deep dive into relationship dynamics. Secrets surface. Transformative time.
8. Feb 22 — Venus-Mars conjunction
Attraction overload. Sweetness and sizzle. Boldness and action meets charm and grace. Chemistry and romance.
9. Feb 29 — Venus-South Node trine, sextile North Node
Blast from the past with a gentle nudge forward. Karmic connections. Learning and growing in love. Value check and balancing old with new.
10. Mar 10 — New moon in Pisces
Dream the dream. Compassion and kindness. Healing and release. Magical encounters.
11. Mar 12 — Venus is exalted royally in Pisces
Soulmate vibes. Luxury in simplicity. Escaping into romance. Romantic fairytale. Healing love.
12. Mar 22 — Venus-Saturn conjunction
Love gets serious. Building lasting bonds. Mature charm. Lessons in love. Prudence.
13. Mar 25 — Venus-Jupiter sextile
Optimism and cheer. Open to new experiences. Charm and attractiveness. Philanthropy and generosity. Finding a sense of purpose through relationships.
14. Mar 28 — Venus-Uranus sextile
Surprises. Electrifying connections. Refreshing perspectives. Shaking it up. Sparks fly. Freedom and quirk.
15. Apr 3 — Venus-Neptune conjunction
Romance in dreamland. Rose coloured glasses. Surrender to the flow. Finding magic in the ordinary.
16. Apr 7 — Venus-Pluto sextile
Call for a deep and powerful connection. Confronting underlying issues. Transforming hidden dynamics. Deeper insight and understanding.
17. Apr 19 — Venus-Mercury conjunction
Sweet talks and love letters. Articulate affections. Creative collaborations. Harmonious negotiations.
18. Apr 25 — Sun is in Taurus and Venus stands Solo in Cancer
Self-care rituals. Sentimental moments. Desire for comfort and safety. Building a home.
19. Apr 29 — Venus moves into its domicile sign Taurus
Luxury and sensuality. Call for loyalty and devotion. Indulgence in the good things life has to offer. Aesthetics and appreciation for beauty.
20. May 8 — New Moon in Taurus
Grounded new beginnings. Steady progress. Material focus. Reflection on values and self-worth.
21. May 14 — Venus-Saturn sextile
Building a strong foundation. Sense of duty and care. Forming structure. Lasting connection.
22. May 18 — Venus-Uranus conjunction
Not following tradition. Unconventionality. Expect the unexpected. Independence in partnership. Innovation and thinking outside the box.
23. May 23 — Venus-Jupiter conjunction
Love is in the air. Cupid gets an upgrade. Good vibes. Creative inspiration. Generosity.
24. May 23 — Venus-Neptune sextile
Supporting those in need. Imagination and transcendence. Gut feelings about things. Navigating situations through dreams.
25. May 25 — Venus-Pluto trine
Deep dive into relationships. Emotions run deep. Addressing past wounds. Empowerment and healing through love.
26. Jun 4 — Venus cazimi
Pronounced beauty and harmony. Ease in forming loving relationships. Finding resolutions with flow and compromise.
27. Jun 4 — Venus-South Node trine, sextile North Node
Gravitation towards partnerships and experiences that align with your soul’s growth. Harmonizing past relationships with the future.
28. Jun 17 — Venus-Mercury conjunction
Playful banter. Charm and persuasion. Compliments and sweet words.
29. Jun 18 till July 11 — Venus in Cancer (honourable mention)
Nurture and protection. Emotional connection, support and understanding. A warm and welcoming home environment. Sentimentality. Cherishing keepsakes and reminiscing.
30. Jun 29 — Venus-Mars sextile
Assertion with grace. Resolving conflicts. Expression of affection. Harmonious attraction.
31. Jul 3 — Venus-Saturn trine
Reliable and secure partnerships. Putting in the work. Shared goals. Fulfilment of commitments. Respect and boundaries. Establishing routines and traditions.
32. Jul 8 — Venus-Uranus sextile
Spontanetity and excitement. Open to change. Freedom and independence while maintaining individual pursuits. Embracing uniqueness.
33. Jul 11 — Venus-Neptune trine
Unconditional love. Belief in soulmates. Attunement to subtlety and nuances. Kindness and understanding. Dreamy and romantic dates. Enhancement and wonder. Transcendent love beyond worldly limitations.
34. Jul 12 till Aug 5 — Venus in Leo (honourable mention)
Confidence and enthusiasm. Love for the spotlight. Desire for attention and recognition. Seeking admiration and praise. Generosity and extravagance.
35. Jul 19 — Venus-North Node trine, sextile South Node
Fated love. Alignment with destiny. Approaching the past with a fresh perspective. Letting go. Making room for more fulfilling connections.
36. Jul 22 — Venus-Jupiter sextile
Generoisty and altruism. Romantic opportunities. Cultural and artistic pursuits. Positive outlook.
37. Aug 8 — Venus-Mercury conjunction
Clear and articulate expression of affection. Heartfelt conversations. Charming and persuasiveness. Winning people over with words.
38. Aug 29 — Venus-Pluto trine
Intensity in connection. Magnetic attraction. Deep dive into feelings. Transformation in love. Empowerment in relationships.
39. Aug 29 — Venus moves into its domicile sign Libra
Emphasis on beauty and aesthetics. Diplomacy and tact. Enhanced
40. Sep 15 — Venus-Jupiter trine
Joy and optimism. Feeling fortunate. Beneficial agreements. Opportunities for growth in matters of the heart. Broadening of horizons.
41. Oct 3 — New Moon in Libra
Renewal in relationships. Bringing balance and harmony. Enjoying the company of others. Restoring fairness and peace.
42. Oct 5 — Venus-Saturn trine
Commitments that last. Mutual respect and understanding. Dependability and tangibility. Resilience through challenges.
43. Oct 8 — Venus-Mars trine
Emotional fulfilment meets physical attraction. Social charm. Persuasion. Constructive actions. Romantic compatibility.
44. Oct 16 — Venus-Neptune trine
Fairytale connection. Unconditional love. Natural flow of kindness and affection. Compassionate and altruistic actions. Care for others.
45. Oct 17 — Venus-Pluto sextile
Deepening of relationships. Empowerment in personal interactions. Insight into relationship dynamics. Healing and regeneration.
46. Oct 23 — Venus-North Node trine, sextile South Node
Alignment with destiny. Feeling of “meant to be”. Growth and strengthening of bonds that help with evolution of the soul. Resolving old patterns. Meeting significant people. Lessons on love and what you truly value.
47. Nov 22 — Venus-Saturn sextile
Commitments are taken seriously. Long term bonds are formed. Grounded expressions. Making wise investments. Maturity and reliability. Lasting value and appeal.
48. Dec 5 — Venus-Neptune sextile
Connection on a more intuitive level. Seeing the best in someone. Enhanced empathy. Soulful love. Overlooking the less than ideal. Resolving for harmony. Compassion.
49. Dec 7 — Venus-Pluto conjunction
Intense attraction. Magnetism at its finest. Passionate experiences. Peeling back the layers. Deepening of values. Control and power dynamics surface. A transformative time.
50. Dec 10 — Venus-South Node trine, sextile North Node
Comfort with the familiar. Learning from the past. Revisiting old values. Constructively moving forward into the future. Evolution of goals.
51. Dec 13 — Venus-Mercury sextile
Heart to heart talks. Harmonious negotiations. Pleasant decision making. Social grace and charm.
52. Dec 20 — Venus-Jupiter trine
Appreciation for beauty and pleasure. Social success. Optimism and generosity. Inclination to give and express affection.
Well, there you have it. Whether it’s through grand gestures or quiet moments of reflection, these 52 dates are there for you to make the most of them. Embrace each one with enthusiasm and an open heart, and you’ll find that the year is filled with an abundance of possibilities.
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🌟 BONUS — What’s the astro weather like on Valentine’s Day? 🌹
On a personal level I have never liked Valentine’s Day. I thought it was a contrived and capitalistic holiday aimed at making people spend money on often unnecessary gifts and manufactured grandiose gestures, all in the name of love. At the same time, it also seemed selective, leaving the singletons feeling left out and even those in unhappy relationships to pretend everything is a-ok for the sake of appearances on this one day.
This coming year, I’m starting to shift my perspective on Valentine’s Day, coming to appreciate it as a dedicated time to celebrate love and affection in all its forms. It can be a day of inclusivity, celebrating not just romantic love but all kinds of love — the love between friends and even self-love. It’s a day to remind those close to us, and ourselves, that love and appreciation are always worth expressing. While love should indeed be expressed all year round, having a day specifically set aside for it brings its own charm and excitement.
Here are the energies playing out in the sky come Valentine’s day
AI Image — single rose enclosed in a glass dome, set against a pink heavenly backdrop
1. Sun is in Aquarius (forms a sextile with Moon most of the day)
2. Moon in Aries (forms a square with Venus in Capri till late in the evening)
3. Merc in Aquarius (forms a square with Uranus all day)
4. Venus in Capri (forms a sextile with Neptune through the day)
5. Mars in Aq (Unaspected through the day)
6. Jupiter in Taurus
A sextile is a harmonious blend of energies that require just a little bit of effort to get things started. Its a blend of both Aquarian and Aries energies that encourages independence with innovation. It’s a great day for celebrating love in unconventional ways and might inspire people to take bold steps in expressing their affections.
Merc in Aquarius suggests unconventional ideas or unexpected communication. There is restless mental energy that can conjure up creative ways to celebrate love. Be flexible because this is the energy of unpredictability and changes.
Venus in Capri calls for patience and dedication. This is not a sign that relishes in the impulse. So with all that innovative energy in the Sun and Merc, while the Moon is in dynamic Aries, Venus calls for seriousness and commitment to a stable plan. It demands infrastructure and the capabilities to go the distance. It’s a gentle nudge to juggle the excitement of the moment with a considerate nod at the future.
Mars being unaspected in Aquarius throughout the day shows the typical drive and aggression of the day is less expressed, and in the context of Valentine’s Day, this could manifest as a desire to break free from traditional expectations or to celebrate in unique, non-conformist ways.
Jupiter in Taurus brings with its presence a stabilizing, grounding influence. It’s favorable for enjoying the sensual and material pleasures of life. In relationships, it encourages a focus on comfort, loyalty, and the enjoyment of life’s simpler pleasures.
This celestial setup through the day sets the stage for a day that’s anything but ordinary, inviting us to explore love in its many shades — from unexpected, out-of-the-box ideas to simple and charmingly practical. So, why not go with the flow, mix things up a bit, and enjoy the dance of both steadiness and surprise?
It’s all about keeping an open heart and a playful mind, ready to embrace love’s little twists and turns with a smile.
